Wednesday, April 20, 2016
On April 16 2016 ,We lost a diamond ,she was taken away in a very tragic accident, the pain and shock is unbareable for all of the family. This is one of the painful moments one can experience in life.
My children Ryan , Shalane, Cody and Dustin (who she opened armed accepted as her own ) are left with a void that cannot be filled she was their beloved Kunshi .My heart goes out to all the grandkids and great grandkids too.
My hurt aches for Blaine, Delane, Merlin and Marla . She was so much to so many and now she's gone. Losing a grandmother in the family is a traumatic experience. As it´s the elders that lead, their presence, life lessons shared are gone and the family is left with only their memorable experiences. A few years back Marvina hit a bump in the road. Literally for months we talked everyday and the odd time every 2 days. I was there for her, I guess she needed me
we talked for hours each time, I´d call her or she me and I called her back. We just talked and talked and boy did we laugh as it´s the best meds right. For many, mother-in-law jokes have a ring of reality. But for me they don't. I had the perfect mother-in-law . I hope the day comes soon that Hughie and Auntie Marla come home but they will have a long a difficult recovery please hold them in your thoughts and hearts . The family will all be on a long healling road sometime in the future.
It's the little things, the small, everyday occurrences that you'll remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles.
But not today ,tomorrow ,next week next month next year but someday. I had the best mother-in-law in the world.
Painfully missing you and will forever and ever love you Marvina, but happy that your with your beloved boys again and the rest of those gone way too early before you .XXXXXX
